5 Excuses Preventing You From Becoming a Minimalist

What’s Minimalist Living?

“The art of living simply, which means shedding items in your home that no longer feel good to you and letting go of clutter in your spaces and life that no longer serve you a purpose.” -Me

When beginning your decluttering journey, ask yourself: 

How can I begin? What obstacles am I encountering? What chatter goes on in my mind when I’m midway? 


  • Many barriers we may create for ourselves when organizing our homes and lives stem only from our mindset.
  • Try to view your decluttering journey as a positive, uplifting, and encouraging one!
  • Doing the above will ease the stress that may come naturally when letting go of certain items and people from our lives that once aligned with us.

Here are the top 5 barriers people may face when decluttering:

1. I paid too much for this! I can’t let this go!

Yes, essentially all of our items hold monetary value, but if the item is just sitting there and we aren’t using it, are we really getting our money’s worth?

Could someone we know, even a friend or family that could make more use out of it?

It’s not about viewing the letting go process as loosing money…

but changing our mindset to reflect a positive behavior that will help those we love bring productivity, joy, or fun into their lives as we clear out ours!

2. Well, what if I’ll need this one day?

If we could as humans, predict every time we would need something from now until twenty years later, we would have garages full of stuff in our homes, spilling into our yards and into our neighborhood streets.

The truth is, if you haven’t used the item in one year, you probably won’t need to or want to.

Common Problem: Clothes!

  • Take inventory of your closet today!
  • Are there any clothes that no longer fit you, feel comfortable, or make you feel anything less of beautiful?
  • Just because you cannot keep your once beloved blouses and pants, by giving them away, you are not at a loss.

Think of it again, as a process of giving back to your communities, local charities or loved ones that could really use a lamp on their desk or that pair of jeans!

3. Someone very important gave this to me!

We all have items spanning from birthday cards, kitchen gadgets, home decor, or even food that was given to us by someone of importance, whether that be a family member or close friend.

This often triggers a guilt process, in which we feel that not keeping the item in question will essentially be a disrespectful representation of our personalities.

Is this really true however? 

If we receive a blender we will never use, because well, we do not blend things or if we are holding onto birthday cards written to us from ten years ago by some friend we used to be friends with, why does that automatically qualify as something we should keep?

Well, it doesn’t and I’m here to tell you, that it is completely okay to give away an item even if your mother-in-law gave it to you, because, well, you won’t use it.


  • If you can honestly and respectfully tell that special person the reasoning that you had to let that item go in the first place, but also how you felt a local charity could benefit from the item even more, that’s considered perfectly okay etiquette in my book.
  • Of course there will be exceptions to this, like certain family heirlooms or traditions, and in that case, there may be someone else in your friend circle or family that would value that item even more. 

Say yes to open and honest communication. Don’t forget and how kind the art of donation can be!

You are literally helping someone who may not have enough money to buy a blender!

You may be putting a shirt on someone’s back who can’t afford to buy that brand even if they saved up for it for months!

You are giving back to communities who need your help!

Even canned or dried foods you do not eat, donate. Feed someone who struggles to properly even eat one meal a day!

4. It’s broken and needs fixing. I’ll get it to eventually!

So, should you keep broken items in your home?

Quickly assess:

  1. Is this something I want to fix because I need this item asap?
  2. Is this item permanently damaged and can’t be fixed? 
  3. Would this item cost a lot of money to repair, when I could just buy the same exact item brand new for cheaper?
  4. If I did fix this item, would I actually use it?
  5. Is there somewhere I could bring this item that could recycle its parts or make use of what’s left of it? I recently did this with my broken Mac laptop, which by the way, I made 200$ off! 

The answers to those questions should make clear fairly quickly whether or not that item’s a keeper or trasher! 

5. It has memories attached to it.

This by far, is the hardest barrier of them all, because emotional attachments to our items are natural and frequent.

However, we must remember, we are NOT our things!

We can cherish beautiful memories in other ways that feel aligned and bring us content internally.

  • Keeping a book your ex-fiance gave you because it reminds you of him probably causes more pain than happiness every time you look at it.
  • Keeping a mug because your aunt, who passed away, gave it to you as a gift though you never use it, probably causes more discomfort than joy. However, framing a cheerful memory of you and your aunt for your gallery wall may serve you in a more beneficial and enlivening light.

Remember, we are not our things and actually spending time to emotionally detach from our old items, can intuitively create space for more lovely, lively, and cheerful items to enter our homes.

Also, please take time to realize how much positive light you can bring into someone else lives, just by giving away your clutter.

Create space for love and joy and that is what will come to you. Hold on to painful memories and chances are, you’ll remain stuck there for a long time.

11 thoughts on “5 Excuses Preventing You From Becoming a Minimalist

  1. Another excellent post! 3 years ago we down-sized and sold 1/3 of all our belongings. We still live a very nice life, but the over-whelming burden from the “excess” in our life is gone. And it is amazing what freedom that truly brings….. Hugs & blessings to you for encouraging and reminding your reader the many “gifts” which can be received from doing so!!

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    1. Hi Dawn! I am so happy to hear that! I completely agree that downsizing helps so much! Don’t you feel lighter and happier getting rid of all those things! It really can be a rewarding experience to declutter. Thank you so much for supporting this article! Blessings!

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  2. This is excellent! The one I struggle with is ” Someone is going to want this” but I hate the idea of being the person trying to unload her trash on everyone haha! Donating to Goodwill is the way I combat this!

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      1. It is a wonderful thing to do! I must confess I have been watching “Obsessive compulsive cleaners” on the BBC and it’s supposed to be a sad look at OCD and cleaning, but I watch it and I think “Damn, I need a steam mop” lol


      2. LOLOL! Omg, I have never heard of that show, but OCD is definitely a difficult condition. I’ve met 2 people in the past with OCD and heard their experiences, they ended up getting help so they are doing better now. Still, cleaning can be therapeutic sometimes (at least for me), haha. Also, feel free to check out my slideshow too, I finally updated it!

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